There’s an undeclared boomer dating war.
The boomer dating war became crystalized when I began writing as a Dating Expert for The Huffington Post and AARP. I noticed a consistent, contentious tone in the thousands of comments from boomer readers. The conflict is fueled in part by boomers’ myopic attitudes related to dating. Boomers place a lot of emphasis on their individual needs with little regard for how that affects the other person. Discordant, divisive dating issues such as first date sex, emotional honesty, dating manners, emotional skills, relationship skills, and more, point to a level of conflict reflected by my own post-divorce dating experiences. The Boomer Guide to Finding True Love Online narrows the gender gap by replacing conflict with harmony through openhearted dialogue.
- First date sex is a contentious boomer dating issue. Women want emotional intimacy before physical intimacy; men are ambivalent. How can boomers resolve this standoff so it doesn’t become a deal killer?
- Is the desire for emotional honesty and vulnerability gender-specific? The answer may surprise. And more important, what level of each is appropriate when dating?
- If you’ve been in relationship with someone who lacked problem resolution skills, then you know they’re critical. Are you aware there are five questions to ask a date that point directly to their problem resolution skills?
- Dating isn’t a numbers game, and kissing a lot of frogs is as flawed a notion as opposites attract. Do you know if you’re dating smart, or just throwing darts at online profiles hoping for a miracle?
The Boomer Guide also shares dozens of dating stories that demonstrate the need for boomers to date openheartedly and without fear, as well as the need to build trust from the first date. The Boomer Guide will help boomers navigate online dating more easily, and become partners in relationships that embody love, trust, best friendship, and incredible sex. The Boomer Guide will increase your chances of finding a life partner exponentially, by narrowing the field skillfully, and dating only those men and women who share your vision for a lasting, joyful relationship.
Ken’s adherence to the "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" philosophy of gender interaction is evident in his new book…His chapter on Emotional Honesty should be required reading for boomers before they date. The ability and willingness to express emotional truth is the foundation of a relationship.
Dating after 50 has its own issues and needs its own advice. Ken Solin makes sure that part of that advice includes the male perspective – both in order to help women to understand men better when they return to dating and also to help men understand the process, their emotions, and their own strategies better. This is an extremely useful addition to the dating literature for mature men and women.